A friend once eloquently put to me, trying to soothe my broken heart, “Relationships are hard.” 🧐 (I hope that you can sense my sarcasm) Of course they are. Did someone lie to you and…
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Contract Basics For Polyamorous Relationships
Contracts are not just for business deals, car leases, and apartments. When you enter into a relationship, that is a contract as well. Nothing wrong with putting it in writing. This becomes necessary when you…
What To Do If You Don’t Like A Person Your Partner Is Dating
It’s bound to happen when we open our relationship up and involve other people. We certainly don’t like everyone. Here are some tips to help prepare and communicate with your partner if you don’t like…
Mindfuckery is not for the Weak
Let’s start simply with the base definition of Mindfuckery; That which destabilizes or confuses the mind. Another more commonly used term would be mind games. In vanilla relationships playing mind games are considered abusive. If…
The Mythical Unicorn
A unicorn in polyamory or swinging lifestyles is usually a single bisexual willing to have sex or enter a relationship with an established couple. Although unicorns are typically female, this term can apply to any…
Emotionally Una-nope! How to Avoid the emotionally unavailable
Suppose you do a Google search about the emotionally unavailable. Hundreds of articles come up, whole websites dedicated to this topic, Facebook groups, Quora questions, pages upon pages. It is very overwhelming. We can cut…