For any polyamorous relationship to be healthy and sustainable, it needs to be set up in a way that supports all participants. Making sure everyone’s needs are met can be very challenging. There are many…
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My First Daddy Was A Dick!
How many of you can raise your hands to the name of this article? Was your first Daddy/Mommy an asshole? Mind you, back then, in the early 1990’s I had no idea of DD/lg relationships…
Do I Want To Be A Secondary Partner?
There are many benefits to being a secondary partner. But as with any relationship, there is no perfect union. However, being a secondary can be designed to fit your needs. As I comment in all…
Stopping Jealousy In Its Tracks
Jealousy and Polyamory seem to go hand in hand. That is the biggest question on everyone’s mind when they find out. “I don’t know how you do not get jealous; I could not do it.”…
What To Do If You Don’t Like A Person Your Partner Is Dating
It’s bound to happen when we open our relationship up and involve other people. We certainly don’t like everyone. Here are some tips to help prepare and communicate with your partner if you don’t like…
How To Become Ridiculously Self-Aware In 20 Minutes
Four years ago my sister got me something that would dramatically alter the direction of my life. In fact, it was probably the most influential gift I’ve ever received. It would help me find my…
What’s the Point of Self-Improvement Anyway?
There’s a paradox with self-improvement and it is this: the ultimate goal of all self-improvement is to reach the point where you no longer feel the need to improve yourself. Think about it: The whole…
Self-love is the basis for self-improvement
There’s a quandary I hear people talk about a lot in the self-improvement world which goes something like this: “Should I keep trying to change, or should I just learn to love myself?” The people…