For any polyamorous relationship to be healthy and sustainable, it needs to be set up in a way that supports all participants. Making sure everyone’s needs are met can be very challenging. There are many…
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Obstacles In A Polyamorous Relationship
A friend once eloquently put to me, trying to soothe my broken heart, “Relationships are hard.” 🧐 (I hope that you can sense my sarcasm) Of course they are. Did someone lie to you and…
Do I Want To Be A Secondary Partner?
There are many benefits to being a secondary partner. But as with any relationship, there is no perfect union. However, being a secondary can be designed to fit your needs. As I comment in all…
Stopping Jealousy In Its Tracks
Jealousy and Polyamory seem to go hand in hand. That is the biggest question on everyone’s mind when they find out. “I don’t know how you do not get jealous; I could not do it.”…
Contract Basics For Polyamorous Relationships
Contracts are not just for business deals, car leases, and apartments. When you enter into a relationship, that is a contract as well. Nothing wrong with putting it in writing. This becomes necessary when you…
What To Do If You Don’t Like A Person Your Partner Is Dating
It’s bound to happen when we open our relationship up and involve other people. We certainly don’t like everyone. Here are some tips to help prepare and communicate with your partner if you don’t like…
Polyamorous Relationship Rules
A friend of mine summed up relationships in three words: “Relationships are hard.” Now in my mind at the time was saying, “No shit.” But the truth is the truth. Being in a healthy relationship…
The In’s And Out’s Of Power Exchange
First, a quick what is: Power Exchange is the empowerment of the dominant by the submissive’s surrender to their control. I believe that Power Exchange is the cornerstone of any BDSM style relationship. It does…
Mindfuckery is not for the Weak
Let’s start simply with the base definition of Mindfuckery; That which destabilizes or confuses the mind. Another more commonly used term would be mind games. In vanilla relationships playing mind games are considered abusive. If…
